Anger and victory
Riki Bonini
"A cold wind sweeps the field of football and running around mocking a coach and his three goalkeepers.
Another tough workout in the cold and mud.
How do I find the arguments and reasons when you can barely kick the ball and every step towards it becoming more difficult?
The fate of all amateurs ... this is one of the thoughts occupying their minds.
a fate that may change if the difficulties and hardships we are able to extract the force that these events, apparently negative, they give us.
A force that can become a thought, image, projection of a mental representation where there is a goalkeeper who will take the field very determined.
A goalkeeper who remember the cold and mud, remember the wind that seemed to mock him.
A reminder that now becomes his anger and perhaps that is why his victory
Mr. Riki
"The nature of rain is always itself, but thorns grow in the marshes and flowers in the gardens. "
(Proverbio arabo)
Ogni esperienza in cui si manifestano delle difficoltà, assume un significato in virtù di come la vive colui che la compie. Può rappresentare un evento stressante di fronte al quale ci si sente passivi e impotenti, a volte sopraffatti, come può diventare un elemento di sfida e di riscatto di fronte alle avversità. L’allenatore ha il difficile compito di dare un’interpretazione alle esperienze dei ragazzi, affinché vengano lette propositive e fonte di energie positive. In questo senso, il mister diviene un filtro dove freddo, stanchezza ed ogni sorta of adverse external environment and their own inner world, are transformed into the desire to win ...
Each coach should be aware of this ...
Isabella Gasperini (Psychologist and psychotherapist)
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